BJs VS Sex, Pros & Cons

Is a blowjob better than sex? Or is sex better than a blowjob? There are pros and cons to both oral sex and vaginal intercourse. When you’re hard up and desperate, any chance to get your dick touched might seem incredible exciting and inviting. Yet once you get some experience under your belt you will start to develop your own likes and dislikes.

Ask almost any guy in the world and they will tell you that they both love sex and blowjobs. Or blowjobs and sex. The order will probably depend on the man you ask, and some of his individual attributes. What is his age? Where does he live? What are his experiences with sex? All this will help determine his answer.

A guy who has been in a sexless marriage for years might be extremely excited about either option. Yet a guy who has somewhat regular sex with a wife who refuses to suck his cock might be much more intrigued oral. The same can apply the other way too. Think about a guy in a relationship with a virgin who is saving herself for marriage but still willing to suck her man’s dick. He’s getting regular blowjobs but can’t stick his throbbing prick into a wet slit. Of course he is going to aim for straight up sex.

Past experiences can also dictate a man’s feelings. A guy who has only had a toothy lazy suck off from a nasty lady with bad breathe might think that he doesn’t like blowjobs. Similarly, a guy who has only had access to sushi-smelling unwashed cunt might think that he doesn’t like pussy. It our life experiences that shape up and determine who we are. That is just as true when it comes to sex and BJs as the food and movies we enjoy.

Still, the best way to look at anything is to be as objective as possible. So let’s step back and try to look at the pluses and minuses of both getting head and doing it. Only then can we come to a real conclusion on the subject of BJs versus sex.

Getting a BJ vs having sex

The point is that we all want what we can’t have. Though some of us can have what we want. Depending on where you live, and how you live, it can actually be pretty damn easy to get a blowjob or full on sexual intercourse whenever you want it. When that’s the case you can sit back and examine the situation. Based on your own outlook you can pick and choose whether you would rather have sex or just kick back and get your knob slobbed.

Why would someone go for a blowjob when they could pound a real pussy instead? Well, there are a number of reasons. The first and most obvious is risk. You aren’t going to get a woman pregnant by blowing a load in her mouth. This goes the other way too. There are some minor sexually transmitted diseases that can be passed by oral sex, but you most likely aren’t going to get HIV or AIDS from head.  The same cannot be said about vaginal intercourse, which can lead to STDs, pregnancies, child support, or worst of all: a marriage you don’t want!

For older guys who have become conditioned and less sensitive over years of intense sexual experience, condoms can be a real drag. On the one hand they can save your life. On the other hand you can’t help but feel like you’re just pumping away into a lifeless latex bag when you really want to feel the realness of wet slippery sugar walls. Getting a bareback blowjob allows you to experience the real feeling of pure erotic pleasure without risking your life or all of your future earnings.

Another great thing about a blowjob is that you can just relax and let it happen. Unless you’re an aggressive face fucker, you don’t really have to do anything when it comes to getting a blowjob. You can literally just sit there and enjoy the experience. No one expects anything from you. You’re not going to make a woman orgasm by putting your dick in her mouth, so there’s no pressure to try. Even if you’re a premature ejaculator you won’t disappoint anyone. Because most women would be happier if you came quickly from a head job! Getting a nice BJ is total stress free enjoyment.

Finally we have to mention the price. The reality is that a lot of us guys actually do pay for sex from time to time. No matter where or how you pay for sex, a blowjob is normally a lot cheaper than full service where you insert your dick into a service provider’s vagina. Yet the ultimate result is exactly the same. Either way you end up emptying your balls into a woman. Does is really matter which hole you shoot your semen into? This is especially true when one hole only costs half as much as the other!

Is sex better than a blowjob?

Some might read the above and scoff. After all, sex is ultimately the reason we are all here. If our parents didn’t have sex then we wouldn’t be born. Doesn’t that in itself prove the superiority of sex over just getting your prick sucked?

Well, it still depends on your outlook. Holy Books throughout history urge us to procreate through loving relationships so that we may carry our the human species. Though if recent history is any judge, we can clearly see that more and more people are turning away from the very idea of marriage and even have children!

So if you want to have kids, then of course sex is going to be better than a blowjob. No amount of throat pudding production will ever put a fetus in a woman’s womb. Though it would probably be a lot of fun to try.

What about the issue of pure enjoyment however? The feeling of raw sex with a wet warm vulva is definitely one of the best sensations a man will ever experience. Even the best deepthroat no-quit no-spit blowjobs can have a hard time competing with the sensation of blowing a load deep in a sopping wet cunt.

If you are with a particularly well built women or someone you really love, the enjoyment is only enhanced. On the other hand a blowjob is a blowjob no matter if a supermodel or the 85 year old neighbor lady is sucking you off. When you’re actually fucking a woman you can grab on to her and pump while your hands and eyes take in the entire experience. There is certainly something to be said for that.

Real sexual intercourse also provides you with a lot of options. You can be active and put your entire force into fucking a woman into submission and multiple orgasms. Or you can just lay back and let her bounce up and down on your stiffy in Asian cowgirl until you let off your load in her snatch. Either way is going to feel great and give you different sorts of sensations.

Let’s not forget all the awesome sexual positions that are available for dicking down a twat. Entire books like the Kama Sutra have been written about it. You do it doggy style, missionary, reverse cowgirl, Eiffel Tower, standing wheelbarrow, Alabama Hot Pocket, or any other number of ways. Head doesn’t offer nearly as many options!

Which do you prefer?

Now that you’ve seen the pros and cons of both oral and vaginal sex, you can make a more educated decision on which is better. This is the kind of choice that each individual has to make for themselves. There’s no cut and dry answer that we can provide you.

Overall, a blowjob is a less risky and more easy going way to get your rocks off. Having full-on sex with a woman could potentially be more dangerous, but it also has a lot of upsides. Both are obvious fantastic ways to spend an hour or two. You can’t really go wrong when you’re busting a nut.

The obvious thing to do is to test out both methods of sperm extraction yourself to see which you prefer. You might find that you’re more partial to scrolling through some hardcore porn on your phone while a woman dutifully blows your rusty trombone. Or you might discover that you are an adventurous lover who wants to try out each and every sex position known to man.

There’s really no wrong answer when it comes to comparing BJs and sex. It’s more of a question of discovering your fully actualized self. Then and only then can you really embrace who you are and pursue the things you are passionate about, no matter which lips you prefer.

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